User blog:IvyMeme/An actual serious message to EVERYONE. (READ THIS OR I SWEAR TO GOD)

'''Right I am so pissed off ok. The bits in bold  are the most important so at least read those.'''

People on the chat, we talk about sexual things. As a joke. yes we do.

Some people are uncomfortable about it and that's fine.

But you know what pisses me off.

NONE OF YOU who are uncomfortable about it even ASK US DIRECTLY to stop.

Then you're gonna get annoyed because we don't stop, WHEN YOU NEVER ASKED US TO.

Please be aware of the rule on sexual topics on chat, as it has been changed and I haven't gotten round to updating rules, sorry: 'It is fine to talk about it because honestly sex is a natural thing, an act of romance which in my opinion shouldn't be frowned upon at all. The only time it is not ok to talk about sex if you know a user under the age of 13 is in chat (you will be let off if you didnt know, however), or if someone asks you to stop.'

'''Right here's the important bit. '''

'''I am really done with people getting all worked up and complaining about ANYTHING without doing anything about it. I've had multiple messages of people threatening to go to wiki staff because they don't like it in the past, when said person HAS NEVER ASKED THE PEOPLE DOING IT TO STOP. '''

So if you are uncomfortable with something; a page, a comment, a topic on chat, ANYTHING:

'''Tell the person to stop/remove whatever it is as it is against the rules to refuse if you ask politely. If it is something that you like to be removed, ask an admin to message them so they can discuss editing/removing it (depending on what it is). Honestly, I can't read minds. And I can't tell if you want something to stop. You need to actually ''tell the person. '

'Too long, didn't read? Long story short: STOP BEING PASSIVE AGGRESIVE BECAUSE YOU DISLIKE IT AND ASK THE PERSON TO STOP IT POLITELY. AND STOP GETTING MAD WHEN THEY DONT STOP WHEN  YOU  DIDNT EVEN ASK THEM TO STOP. NONE OF US CAN READ MINDS.'