Talk:Admiral Alteer the Wolf/@comment-29801849-20160904231914/@comment-4107522-20160905002153

Jared, you were being rude. Someone talks to you, you don't bite them just because you don't agree. You're pushing people away and making a bad reputation. It's not helping anyone, especially you.

How does disregarding what someone has to say help? You don't have to agree, but that's all you need to say "I disgree" or better yet "I appreciate the advice, but I think I'll keep to what I'm doing", and then claiming saying so isn't rude just because you're being honest doesn't stop it from being rude. He didn't ask you to lie or sugar things up, but you're expected to be respectful and civil. There is a massive gap between sugar-coating and not being jerkish in one's response.

I would suggest an alternative for how you'd tell O'sulyvahn that you were disregarding what they had to say, but their comments shouldn't have been disregarded to begin with, but at the very least a brief apology for treating the effort they put in to talking to you about this like it was entirely unimportant would have been nice.

People who apologize, regardless of if they're actually at fault, are respected far more than people who refuse to regardless of if they're wrong or not. Just... please don't snap at someone like that.