Talk:Ask-To-Join RP: Realms At The Door/@comment-4029377-20170619052555/@comment-4107522-20170619064632

This wasn't handled well at all here. I'll go over the important bits in orer of hwo they happened.


 * I don't have a problem with Jared asking the initial question, nor do I have a problem with him criticizing.  However using your own lore as if it relates to the actual continuity and using it as a basis for imposing opinion, that is an issue.

Grief being born is irrelevant. This is Cajun's continuity/representation of the world. Actual Moebius is not based on Jared Moebius.


 * Even if the sources Jared used to criticize this were irrelevant here, him offering critique is not a good enough reason to snap at him and say "   If you're gonna criticize, get the fuck out of here."

If you don't want to talk about it, then simply state that you'd rather not get into it. And if the person presses still, then that's on them, not you. Because you decided to snap at Jared, he snapped back, when it could have all been avoided.

Both of you, and don't try to excuse yourself here, Jared, are responsible for acting childish over the situation. Cajun, if you're going to say you don't want to be criticized, then I'm sorry but you forfeit the right to critize Jared for whatever he's done.

Jared, you're a long-time member here. If someone does something childish, just leave it and move on to greener pastures. Getting a snappy comment in doesn't fix your problem. It only brings in me to deal with your mess.

I want both of you to APOLOGIZE, but I'm not going to ask that you co-exist in the roleplay. Jared, if you feel like you won't be able to put up with some childish remarks, then you shouldn't roleplay with Cajun right now. Cajun, if you feel like you can't take crticism (and to be fair that can be said for either of you), then don't expect people to want to join your roleplay.

I know that at least one you went to the staff for help in this, but we aren't going to just look at one person's faults and not the other in a transgression. I don't want to hear any "But I..." or "But they...". I want to here an "Okay", "I'm sorry", "I'll move on", or simply silence.